The Road to Deeper Intimacy

The reason for a lot of the imbalance in our lives is the feeling of not being received in relationship. When we are happy with our relationship it does not matter much what happens in the world around us, it all feels so manageable because there is an outside force that seems to be perpetuating us.

There is a reason why intimacy plays such an important role. It will almost always be an intimate moment shared with one other person that will be the reference point that all other moments will be weighed against when placing these events or emotional intensities on the scale with love at one end, and unlove or that which takes us away from love at the other.

The moment that we define as the greatest moment of love and happiness can never be reached as it would relieve us of our desire to move. This is the same voice that says "I have felt this intense love, I wonder what the next level is like..." It is exceedingly difficult to be both halves of the whole or the entirety of the scale at the same time as this would mean you would cease to exist without movement. The spiritual practice is simply to be aware of these poles and invoke whatever polarity sequence is necessary to balance out the moment thus engaged in only the most effortless of movements.

When there are two people that are open in the heart each can take their core roles as either masculine or feminine and unite the scale as one being in sexual unity. This is a much easier way to understand our own unified being as we can see our counterparts in a form that is tangible. We then feel comfortable with who we are at that moment which is a feeling of vulnerability for the feminine and freedom for the masculine.

The event promotes the feeling of love but the event itself is not love! The event is just you allowing yourself to feel an already existent flow of energy that you are creating by allowing yourself to be lured out into relationship; this relieves you of the feeling of having topush yourself into relationship. Ultimately what you find is you are looking at the entire universe wrapped up in a mirror you can call an intimate partner; There are ways of identifying with this process and finding devastating intensity within relationship. Read 5 Practices to Attain Deeper Intimacy

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